Between the Behaviorists: Hair and Race | Model Behaviors

Between the Behaviorists: Hair and Race

Courtney: We’re talking about hair. And we’re talking about race. Two things that might not immediately strike someone as being related. But lately there’s been a lot of discussion about the natural hair movement and white people appropriating black culture. One instance I’m thinking of in particular is when Amandla Stenberg—the actress who portrayed Rue in The Hunger Games—called out Kylie Jenner, who posted a pic of herself with cornrows yet never acknowledges any other aspects of black culture on her profile, in particular movements like #BlackLivesMatter.

On top of the racial implications, hair has long since been a complex source of both power and objectification for women. The way we fashion it or don’t fashion it. If we wear it up or down, curly or straight, covered or uncovered, long or short or completely shaven, or blonde or brunette or redhead. Our hair says things about us, whether we want it to or not.

When the world sees you, Bulaong, what do you want your hair to say?

Bulaong: Oh my hair! We’ve had such an interesting twenty-six years together and the messages I’ve sent with my hair have changed over time. I’ve absolutely fallen in LOVE with my curls over the past year and have immersed myself into that natural hair community to learn more about growing and maintaining healthy hair. I’m a wash-and-go kind of girl, literally meaning that I wash my hair, detangle it in the shower, toss some organic coconut oil or shea moisture product on it, and head out the door. I set a goal to have a year of no heat—no straightening or blow-drying my hair.

I guess if I would describe my hair in one word, it would be “carefree.”

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Take Down the Flag: Bulaong's Side of the Story | Model Behaviors

Take Down the Flag: Bulaong’s Side of the Story

When I was first asked to write about the topic of the confederate flag, I was thrilled. Then after some time, I started thinking, “What would I write that hasn’t already been said?”

From Rep. Jenny Horne’s impassioned and tearful speech about why the flag needs to go to the courageous act of Bree Newsome scaling the pole and taking down the flag herself, I felt the weight of a debate that has been going on for decades and written about extensively. What more would I have to contribute?

But, I have my own relationship with that flag, so that is what I know best to write about.

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Song of the Week: "Young Girls" by Princess Nokia | Model Behaviors

Song of the Week: “Young Girls” by Princess Nokia

In honor of Model Behaviors’ Ethereal Summer, I had to share this earth-loving, goddess-praising song. Puerto Rican artist Destiny Frasqueri, out of New York City, does the vocals on Princess Nokia, whom she describes as being her alter ego.

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Advice for the Budding Activist | Model Behaviors

Advice for the Budding Activist

It began in high school—actually before that—but my my first organizing effort was done senior year of high school. Speaking out against things that seemed unjust has always felt natural to me. I had this deep understanding of what I thought was fair or not fair, even when I didn’t have the language to articulate my feelings.

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SHOW REVIEW: 8 Minutes | Model Behaviors

SHOW REVIEW: 8 Minutes

A new show on A&E, “8 minutes,” follows a retired cop-turned-pastor Kevin Brown and his team of volunteers and advocates. Their mission is to provide resources to “possible victims of sex trafficking.” Kevin and his team set up in a hotel and he poses as a “John” to get them to the room. The team’s main goal is to get these women “out of the life.” The title of the show comes from Kevin Brown’s experience while in law enforcement. “The team believes that after eight minutes the chances of a violent interaction with a pimp increase exponentially.”

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