Dear Toni,
My boyfriend and I recently decided to move in together, and I am having serious second thoughts. You see, while I was helping him pack up for the move, I came across a box of ex-girlfriend memorabilia. Inside were photos of him and his exes at all of our favorite spots, with all of our friends. And that’s not even the worst part. The women in those pictures could have almost been my twins!
It was like déjà vu, Toni, or like a creepy movie that I can’t stop replaying in my head. His former loves were my height, with the same hair color, same haircut, similar clothes, and sometimes even the same silly faces in snapshots. Now, I’m beginning to understand why people looked so perplexed when he and I first started dating. Do I have a good reason to freak out, or am I just his ‘type’?
L.H.
Read More “is your man a doppelgänger dater?”